A Gentle Kind of Freedom: A Note for the 4th of July

While the sky cracks open with fireworks and laughter drifts through open windows, maybe you’re sitting quietly tonight. Maybe you’re scrolling your phone under a blanket while the world feels miles away. Maybe you’re missing someone who once made this day feel like summer meant something.

If that’s you — I see you. I know how loud loneliness can be when everything else is loud too.

This holiday is about freedom. And while some freedoms are big and loud — sung in anthems and bright explosions — some are soft and private, found in the small choices we make for ourselves.

I started Set Forth NY because I needed tiny, steady lights to hold onto in the dark. A reminder that comfort doesn’t have to wait for someone else to show up — sometimes it’s in your own hands. Sometimes it’s a flame in a quiet room.

Tonight, if the noise outside feels too much, light something softer. Brewed Radiance, Seaside Passion, Lustrous Tides, Lush Mornings — or any flame that reminds you you’re still here, still worthy of warmth.

To the ones sitting quietly tonight while the sky explodes — I see you. I light a candle for you. May you feel held, exactly as you are.

Here’s to the gentle kind of freedom: the freedom to feel what you feel, to honor your heart, to find comfort in your own small rituals. May your light be steady tonight.

I’m lighting one with you.